When to Say I Love You? Wait For the Appropriate Time
Love is a difficult emotion despite of the age group of the person in question and the number of times the “love” has happened to him/her. What makes love difficult is the hair line difference between the feelings called lust and infatuation and love. This hair line difference becomes wider with time, but often the potential lovers don’t give themselves sufficient time. If you simply don’t know when to say I love you, you should wait and watch your emotions first. There are certain tips that will let you know when to say those three little words of true emotions.
When to Say I Love You? Don’t Rush Through
As mentioned earlier, all the three emotions love, lust and infatuation feel the same initially. So, it is highly advisable to wait and watch before uttering out the “I love you” slogan. Lust is more about sexual attraction. It is just the imagination to spend quantity time under the sheets with the person in question. No emotional attachments are present in this situation and you forget the person as soon as you find someone else who catches your fascination. Being is lust and uttering “love” is not recommended, as this way you may run away from commitment and hurt your partner emotionally.
Infatuation is more about falling for the charm of the person. You may start enjoying the company of the person only due to his/her good looks, laugh, humorous nature, intelligent talk and attitude or friendly nature. There are no defined characteristics for you to get infatuated to a person. Yet, infatuation also wears off with time. Again, it is not recommended that you express your feelings as “I love you” to the person in question, as this will also lead your partner to heartache when you two break off.
Love is a feeling that lingers on even long after you meet the person. It is like a perfume that stays with you in the form of memories and dreams. It is a longing to see and spend as much time, with your partner, as possible. It is the urging to spend the rest of your life with the person in question. The charm wears off with time, but true love remains forever. Express your love by saying those three little words of happiness and emotions by saying “I love you” only after you are more than sure that you can’t live without the person. Say the person “I love you and miss you” when all the charm erodes and ends, but the true feeling of care, missing and happiness stays with you. Say “I love you” when you want to lead a happy life with your date forever.
