Now that, you both love each other and are planning to settle down with each other, you both should be more cautious than just be in the mood of celebrations. If you both enter into the zone of marriage without giving the “word” much thought, then you are heading for lots of heartaches and finally a break off. Let us discuss why marriage calls for lots of studies and thoughts before finally entering into it.
You both met each other in the train, you sitting and staring the beautiful woman sitting next to you with a book in her hand. She pays no attention to you and you are simply mesmerized at her concentration over the book, then you head for a small chat with her and you two click. Then starts the dating session and after dating each other for hardly six months you two want to register your undying love for each other into marriage. Beware; the book that brought you two together in the train may become the cause for your divorce as well. So, before settling down ask few important questions to each other, so that you both die in love and not get divorced instead.
While dating, there are many habits of both the partners which the other half loathes, but ignores for the sake of averting tip offs. But, once the marriage happens the chemistry changes completely. So, you need to prepare a detailed list of the habits of your partner that bothers you to death and the cause behind it. Once the list is prepared, you both should sit down and explain each other the cause and results of these “bad habits” to each other. You must also discuss each other’s thoughts related to finance managements after marriages, yours thoughts about the daily cleaning and cooking. The raising of the kids also needs a careful planning and mutual understandings, which comes gradually. You both should also check out the level of comfort while discussing about each other’s ex. You should discuss about sex and its related problems and happiness.
Teach your partner how to make you happy during the sex and cooperate with each other if any one partner is not very potential enough in making you satisfied sexually. As this segment plays a major role into binding one in and out of the marriage knot. Other than all these, each day and each event will teach both of you to eventually to cope up with your likings and disliking. You both need to honestly discuss situations and develop the ability to adjust to any situation that can spark off a big fight between you and your partner.