Dating is meant for fun. But, not all dates can assure you your part of fun. There may be times when you were really eager to go for a blind date and you meet a totally wrong guy who is not only threat to your fun, but also safety, then what should you do? Don’t stand the date for long if you feel threatened physically. Don’t stand the date for long if you feel that this person is simply not worth your attention and company. Guys aren’t wired to take subtle hints about what is going in your mind and what not. So, make sure you strictly explain what’s in your mind about the date. Read on to know tips about ending a bad date.
Is the guy simply boring or not of your standards or a complete threat to your safety? All the three situations call for different measures of ending a bad date. If the guy is boring, you may simply pretend to attend an emergency phone call and explain the “unavoidable” circumstances and leave the premises. Explain him your denying to go for next date as you both don’t click with each other, over the phone when he calls you up for a next date. Pick up a taxi and go home so that he doesn’t get mixed signals of your denying the date.
If the guy is below your standard and pretends to meet your standard, you can just bluntly say that no chemistry exists between you and him. But, say this only if you think that the person won’t create much scene due to your statement. If you get even a slight hint of your reputation damage or safety threat from your date, then you rule out honesty there. Stick a plastic smile on your face and leave the venue with the support of any lie. When he calls up the next time simply break off over the phone amicably without much fuss.
If the person you went for date is a big threat for your safety or wants to be physical at the first date itself, simply study the threat. If you feel it extremely dangerous, just go to the loo and sneak away through the back doors or call upon your friends to escort you to safety or simply run away from the venue with your bags and badge.
Dating is fine if all ends well, but end a date immediately with the above tips in handy, if you are simply not comfortable with your date.