Top 10 Indications of Interest

As anyone who’s ever had a brush with romance will tell you, there are few things more frustrating than not being able to tell whether another person is interested in you. You can observe and obsess over their slightest gestures, but it will only add to your confusion. How we wish it were as simple as plucking the petals off a flower! However, the guessing game becomes a lot easier and surer if you know the top 10 interest signs to watch out for!

• Lengthy and frequent eye contact is a sure sign that the person is interested and is trying to send you a suggestive message this way. Coupled with a warm and genuine smile, or a bright and playful one, this one is a sure bet!
• If a person tends to touch you often, they might be romantically interested. From brushing your arm while talking to stroking your hair playfully or simply patting you on the back frequently, these are signs to look out for.
• If a person allows you to touch them often, they might be equally interested. For instance, they will not shift in their seat if you happen to be sitting too close with your arms or knees against each other, but seem to welcome it.
• They will want to spend as much time with you as possible, and preferably, with you alone. They might be too shy to ask you out, but will readily drop most things to make plans with you if and as you like.
• A person who fancies you will want to impress, and will make an evident show of their qualities. They might begin to pay more attention to their looks and attire, and if you compliment a particular outfit, expect to see it repeated often!
• A person is trying to attract you might begin sharing in your interests and passions with enthusiasm. Whether it is your taste in music or preference in cuisine, they will try to engage you this way to create a bond based on common interests.
• Expect such a person to go out of their way trying to be extra nice to you. They will pay more attention to you, will compliment you often, will laugh at your jokes no matter how lame, and will always be ready to defend you.
• In much the same way as above, if a person cooks a meal for you, or prepares something with their own hands for you, they are obviously trying quite hard to win you over.
• A person who displays signs of strong disappointment or hurt when you do not encourage their gestures, or appear jealous when you choose to pay more attention to another person of their sex, probably wants you to themselves.
• Obvious signs of romantic interest include asking someone out, buying them presents, writing them love notes, or trying to kiss them. If any of these happen to you, you don’t need to be a rocket scientist to figure out what’s going on.

If you are able to pick up even a couple of these top 10 interest signs from someone, you are good to go!