Boost Up Your Confidence Level
"Confidence is hereditary"." Only some people are more confident". "By the use of some magic formula one can become more confident instantly" ----- These are some misconceptions that people have about getting confident. But confidence has nothing to do with genes. No magic formula can raise confidence level. Neither a few people are destined to possess it. Anyone can boost up his confidence level with proper guidance and motivation.
WHAT IS COFIDENCE: Being confident is nothing but listening to yourself and prioritizing your needs. Its very simple to say but needs a lot of effort to make it possible. First of all one should point out why he is lacking in confidence. And then he must take some steps to rectify his drawbacks
DIFFERENT SIGNS THAT SHOW LACK OF CONFIDENCE: The following signs are visible in a person who lacks self confidence-----
- Giving Reasons For Your Action: Confident people never give any reason for their mistakes. As a human being it is our right to do mistakes. We are not robots.
- Body Language: People who lack confidence always take defensive position (either arms folded or crossed legs). Confident people never do that unless the situation demands.
- Replying Back Immediately To Criticism: replying back promptly and aggressively is a sign of lower confidence level. Confident people take the criticism in a constructive way.
There are other signs too which shows the persons confidence. But they vary person to person. Tress out these signs may easier but the main point is HOW TO BECOME MORE CONFIDENT. It needs some will power as well as some external helps.
BE MORE CONFIDENT: Here are some tips to make a higher confidence level:
Take Care Of Your Body: Take care of your physical body. Have a healthy eating habit. If you in proper shape and have a toned figure, you are bound to feel more confident while you are in a gathering.
- Don’t Afraid To Be Yourself: Let people know who you are. Stop pretending to be something which is not real you. Some people do this only to please others. Stop listening to music you don’t want to. Stop being with those people you don’t belong to. It does not make you lonely. It will make you righteous.
- Do Meditation: It helps a lot to calm down your inner conflict and focusing to the right direction. Regular practice of meditation helps in building strong confidence level.
- Don’t Hesitate To Take A Decision: Analyze the situation, think about the possibilities and take your decision. And be firm with it. You may face Hostility but confident people never compromise.
- Keep Faith On Yourself: It is important to have faith on yourself. It is the key word of being confident.
Lastly, being confident is a state of mind. Accepting failure is a must. Face it with smile and move on with your life. The capacity of going on with whatever life gives is the strongest sign of a more confident human being.