Too distant and confused in a long distance relationship

Long distance relationships are quite common these days. At least 10 million couples are already into it. But the hardships in this kind of relationship are no less. Missing your partner is very common for you. You may often feel like creating your own count down calendar, being too distant and confused. But with some will and wit you can at least make yourself comfortable and the wait bearable.

Forget the distance

There is actually no reason to feel too distant and confused in a long distance relationship. For, what does distance mean these days? You may be physically distant from your love, but how does that come in your way of communication? After all, distance cannot stop you from staying connected with your love over the Internet. You have the whole lot of choices before you – the text chat, web cam sessions, voice chat, video chat … the list is truly long. These channels can make the distance separating you two look insignificant. You can also count on the social networking sites. They offer you a convenient platform to connect and share. You may also consider means like instant messaging. Well, are you still feeling too distant and confused? Don’t these options make you feel much better? They are surely making you feel a lot more confident. No?

Be creative

Ideas rule the world. And you need but a few to serve your purpose, if you are looking for ways to overcome the distance between you and your lover. Why not try writing a love poem in the archaic style, interspersed with fresh expressions? It brings an old world charm, no? That’s perfect, because you feel like you have been in the relationship for ages, isn’t it? So, it perfectly gels with your mood. You may also try uploading your recent photograph on a photo uploading site. When your partner gets the link of the site from you, the person will surely be ecstatic! Sending a romantic voice message to your partner can also be good idea. After all, your voice is what your partner waits to hear amid the humdrums of the noisy world, no?

Make your choice

The options of staying connected are many and the last thing you should feel is too distant and confused. You need to make up your mind and decide upon your choice of ways to overcome the distance. Some ideas are given below.

• Send each other personalized gifts
• Take your photographs and mail it to your partner
• Watch a movie or a TV show at the same time and discuss it later
• Start a blog and exchange your ideas and feelings in your blog.
• Send e-cards to your love stating your feelings for the person