How To Win The Date And The Man

It is often thought that since chasing and impressing is all a man’s job, so there’s nothing for a woman to be worried about in dating game. They can rather sit back and leave all the hard work of impressing and winning herself over to the man. But in reality a woman is as unnerved as a man in this case, or probably more. There are a lot of things a woman needs to concentrate on if she wants to end as a winner in her dates. We will try to highlight the most important points to make him all yours.

1)Look Your Best – Most important. Men may be called shallow in their thinking but the fact remains that their thought process or intellect is very different than a woman’s. They judge by looks. So look as good as you can. Dress up well, wear make-up and nice perfumes. If required visit a spa before the date and do everything that helps you look pretty and charming. And be and look confident.

2)Be interesting, humorous and mysterious – Men are attracted by intelligence. So talk interesting and intelligent. Use your sense of humor for the better and don’t forget to surprise him every time he thinks that he knows you. Or else men tend to lose interest in women if they do not find anything to discover or re-discover about her. So keep him on his toes.

3)Don’t be tipsy – Do not drink more than you can handle.

4)Don’t brood of things or look sad – Men find this very disturbing and difficult to handle if the woman with him is all tears or even looking sad while complaining about things in her life. He is there to have some good time with you. So enjoy the time with him and make it special with your smile.

5)Do not speak badly about your Ex – If you had been in a relationship previously then avoid discussing it with your current date. And never ever speak badly about your Ex.

6)Be unavailable and hard to get – Don’t be available when he wants you to be. Do not reply to all his calls or messages. Let him feel that there are other important things in your life. Let him chase you. Men love to do this, so don’t deprive them of the enjoyment.

7)Keep Him waiting – It is a woman’s right to turn late. So do this with pride and grace.

8)Keep the date Brief - During initial phase, keep your dates brief. Less is always more. It will keep your men interested in you.

9)Other qualities – Men want someone who is kind and gentle, qualities of a good mother, who can raise his kids well. Be supportive and don’t criticize him. They look for trust and commitment. Someone they can share themselves with and have fun too. Show them you are capable of all that and more.