So you think you are charming. A perfect date material. But you are still struggling to go on your first date. What could be the reason. Well, one definite reason for this is lack of preparation.
There is a very old saying which goes like this,”Luck is when opportunity meets preparation.” This applies to your dating success rate also. If you want to enjoy a successful date, then you need to do start preparing for it. Given below are few tips that you can start working on right away. This will improve your dating chance and success with your first date. These are:
You need to develop the habit of getting into the gym on a regular basis. Especially do it on days when later in the evening you are going for a date. In fact start using exercises as a ritual prior to going for a party.
It will not only help you get into a good physical shape but it will also generates endorphins which helps you get pumped up mentally. Thus you are active and fresh to blow away your evening date with your confidence and charisma.
While you are planning for an outing tonight, always prepare hoping for a best case scenario. In case you get lucky and have a guest over, then you need to have your place presentable and clean. Do keep a bottle of wine handy. Also keep a few fun props at home which will help you initiate some interesting conversation. It could either be a unique piece of art or a coffee table book. Try and make it as interactive as you can. Also ensure your bedroom is well made and clean.
Be informed about the news today. Always update yourself with the latest entertainment news and gossip. This is in fact one of the perfect topics for conversation. Even if you are not interested, at least present her a picture that you are in loop. Women like to discuss about celebrity gossip, it is like candy to them.
You need to be in a positive frame of mind. No women likes to be in the company of a negative person. Eliminate any insecurity that you may feel and relax yourself mentally.
This is another ritual that you should follow before going out in the evening. Get together with a few of your friends and enjoy some drink with them. This will help you warm up for the evening event.
When with your date, the situation may get awkward in moments of silence. For such situations always be ready with some interesting and unique stories. Try and make the stories as humorous as you can. These fun side of you will help you stand out from the crowd. She will distinguish you from others and provide her some insight into your character. She will definitely want to know more about you.
These are some of the basic tips which will help you win over your women. Also take care of your clothing and hygiene. Be careful enough not to use cologne in excess. The case with cologne is that, less is more. The tips above will ensure that your first date is definitely not the last one.